Happy with a tear in my eye

107 Years, 10 month and 4 days ago, on Christmas eve 1900, a beautiful baby girl was welcomed into this world and was named Anita Gonzales. She grew up to be a strong willfull young lady and introduced women's lib before it existed (Left a note for her husband while he was at work "Dear Ben, Melba needs me" before she hoped on the train to help out her daughter with a sick child) . . . She was married to the same man (Ben) for 62 years before his death. She gave birth to 12 children, seven of which are still living, and has 43 grandchildren, 102 great-grandchildren, 86 great-great-grandchildren and 30 great-great-great-grandchildren.

I was blessed and honored to call her my great grandma

When Jonathan and I went to visit her this year, I said "Your going to be 108 this year Grandma, are you excited?" Her reply was "I'm going to be 108, what do you think?" and laughed. She was an amazing woman who did so much with her life and touched so many people. She always said that she would keep going until God wanted her back with Him.

Well this past Tuesday, I guess God decided that she had waited long enough. My grandma Dimas went to sleep for her afternoon nap and passed away peacefully in her sleep.

She was an amazing woman that has lead a full and wonderful life and we all knew that it was a matter of time before she passed on but I still don't think that ever makes us ready for when it happens! I am so blessed that she was able to meet and approve of my husband earlier in the month and that she was able to see how happy I am and continue to be! I guess all in all, I could not have asked for a better goodbye!

Last part of the Anniversary Celebration

One of Jonathan's gift was tickets to the Jeff Dunham show. So Friday night we freshed up and pick up our good friends Josh and Krystal and off to Katz 21 for dinner. After an amazing dinner and great conversation off we went to watch the Jeff Dunham show. His opening act was amazing but nothing could beat Jeff. We had an amazing time and our abs were sore from so much laughter! It was a great time and an amazing way to end our anniversary week celebration! Yippee onto Year 2!

1 Year

Yesterday we celebrated one year of marraige. I pieced together a simple dinner for two and we celebrated with a bottle of wine. I kinda got myself my gift before Mia got it for me...I got Mia tickets to Wicked when it comes to San Antonio next June. Yeah that's a long way off but you gotta get em early to get good seats. We talking over dinner about life and where we might be in a few years. Then we spent the rest of the evening curled up on the couch catching up on some of the shows we're addicted to. There's not enough time or blog space to write about all that I have learned over the last year. It has gone by so fast and I have grown so much. I could go on and on about alot of things but I'll just say this. My wife is the most beautiful, intelligent, forgiving, amazing, perfect woman on earth.

Anniversary Recap Day 4

Our last day in New Mexico, I finally got the chance to sleep in a bit. Of course Mia was up with the kids bright and early, making waffles and cutting up fruit! Uncle Mark convinced her to let me sleep as long as I could. And off the girls went again to do a little art and craft fair stuff, grocery shopping etc. Now Isaac is in private school and they are required to keep up with physical fitness stuff so he needed to practice his mile run! So off we went to the park and did a mile run (completely different in high altitude) and tossed around the football for awhile. Came back home, showered up and off we went again to set up Grandma's house for family dinner. Once we got there I got to meet Uncle Jeff, Tia Kim, Katie and Ryan for the first time and caught up with them for awhile. Then came the most awesome dinner! Red chili casserole, corn, roast, pasta salad, tortillas, beans and then cheesecake and pear white cake. I think I ate like 5lbs of Tia Sophie's enchilladas! After dinner I caught up with grandpa again and he told me some of his military stories! Grandma then gave Mia her birthday gift which she will blog about later. I felt very blessed to be welcomed so wonderfully into Mia's extended family. They were all very excited to get to spend time with me. I especially enjoyed watching a few touching momments between Mia and her grandma. We called it a night around 6ish and headed back to Mark and Sandi's to do some laundry and pack up for the trip home. We spent some quality time with Mark and Sandi and the kids and then called it a night around 9. Not so bright and early at 530 we were up and off to the airport for the flight home. Got to see my family for breakfast at IHOP during our layover in Houston, enjoyed getting to do that. Got to the house around 3 unpacked and crashed out. What a trip, wish we coulda been there longer. Mia's family in Albuquerque is awesome and I can't wait to go see them again! A special and huge thanks goes out to Tia Sandi Uncle Mark, Robyn and Isaac who let us crash in their place, use their car and take up their family time. Also to Tia Sophie who squeezed in time with us with her busy schedule and her family. Mia's family is amazing and I am so glad we got to spend our anniversary with them!

Anniversary Recap Day 3

Day 3 started at 5am, since the balloons lift off in the cool morning air! We woke up early, got dressed and bundled up and off we went to the field again. This morning was the special shapes launch. My favorite was the Eagle and Mia's favorite were the two bubble bees that hold hands in the beginning and then once in the air turn to kiss each other! There were so many balloons that it looked like they were inflating on top of each other! Once all the balloons were in the air, the competitions begin! When they cleared the field for the competitions we were lucky enough to end up right in front of the key grab field. The balloons have to glide in at the exact right spot and try to grab an envelope off the top of a 20ft tall pole set in the ground. It was awesome to watch all these balloons try to navigate in and grab the envelope, since they can only control the balloon in the up and down motion, they have to plan their attack very far out. We even got to see a few eat it and crash a little as the came down. We saw two balloons get the envelopes, which was pretty cool becasue some years they have no one get the envelope. So once those activities were over we scanned the chainsaw carvings and the craft fair one more time and then headed home, for a little nap :) After we rested up, off we were again with Tia Sophie this time, to see her house, another craft fair, a small snack and then the Tram :) We saw the most beautiful sunset over the valley of Albq while we were waiting in line. Once we got into the tram, it was getting dark,making the cliffs and valley seem a little more dramatic from that high up. Once getting to the top it was 20 degrees cooler, making it 40 degrees, but the view was spectacular! Coming back down was an adventure again, picking up a little more speed on the way down made for an interesting ride down. Afterwards we grabbed some delicious green chili quesadillas and enjoyed some family time with Tia Sophie, Rich and Jeremy. All in all another great day!

Anniversary Recap Day 1 and 2

Wednesday afternoon we whisked away to start our anniversary weekend in New Mexico. We got picked up from the airport Wednesday evening by Uncle Mark and spent the evening catching up with family (Uncle Mark, Tia Sandi, Robyn and Isaac) and settling in. The following day we woke up and headed out to Grandma's house. Mia walked in first getting a few tears from her, and then I got to meet Grandma! With flowers in hand, for her of course, she hugged me with all the love of one of her own grandchildren. We sat down and looked at wedding pictures and relaxed. Grandpa came in and found a new person to re-tell his military career too :) After catching up, off we went to Great Grandma's house! She is a hoot, all 5 feet of her (Mia says that the Olona women shrink as they get older), she showed me all around the house, showed me all the pictures, knick knacks, furniture that was made by her husband and father, etc. It was a wealth of history and memories. After a quick visit there, off we went to lunch and the new Indian cultural center. All in all a wonderful day spent with the grandparents. Shortly after we sped back to Mark and Sandi's to ready for the evening special shapes Balloon glow, we lucked out because Tia Sandi's dad had a crew pass so we didn't have to wait in any lines, pay anything and then arrived right on the field. We quickly walked around to see as many shapes as we could and oohhhed and ahhhhed when they all lite up at the same time. Afterwards, we grabbed a few snacks (including a much deserved funnel cake) and watched the fireworks. Spectacular once again! We met up with Tia Sophie, Jeremey, Jenny and little Joshua for a quick second (enough time to engage in some lightsaber sword fighting action) and then headed home to start again the following morning!

One Year Ago Today...

.... I was waking up in my own bed all by myself

.... I had about 10 girls in one room doing hair, makeup and having fun

.... My brother made me cry as he gave me a beautiful gift

.... I put on this gorgeous dress as my mom and mother in law helped

.... I got a call from my fiance asking what I was up to and if I wanted to meet up some time that day!

.... I kissed my mom as she beautifully stepped out of the limo

.... My father helped me out of the limo and walked me into the church

.... I saw the love of my life about 150 feet away from me

.... I did not slowly walk down the aisle, I had to be held back from running by my dad :)

.... I was smiling from ear to ear and nothing could make me stop

.... I promised to love a man for better or for worse

.... He promised me the same!

.... I shared my first kiss with my husband!

.... I enjoyed an amazing reception with great friends and family

.... All of those great family and friends shot my husband and I with strings of paper as we ran away to our highly decorated truck!

.... I had the best day of my life.... so far!

Thank you everyone for the well wishes, cards, calls and love! We love you all!

Week Long Anniversary Celebration

Tomorrow we leave for ABQ New Mexico for a few reasons....

1. Jonathan has never seen the hot air balloon fiesta that I grew up with and I wanted to share that with him and it never gets old for me :)

2. Several of my extended family wasn't able to attend our wedding and I want Jonathan to have the chance to meet them all, especially my grandparents, my great grandma and my great aunts.

3. To celebrate our anniversary with something out of the ordinary.

4. Lastly I am very much in need of some home cooked tortillas so I am going to the place that makes the best tortillas ever... Grandma's House

We already have the week planned thanks to my amazing tia's so standby for an interesting recap of our first wedding anniversary adventure!

Nights of Rodanthe

"...there is a different kind of love one that gives you courage to be better then you are and that makes you think ANYTHING is possible. I want you to hold out for it."

If you are a Nicholas Sparks fan, you will not be disappointed, of course as always the book is ten times better but the movie did not disappoint. Admist all the tears, laughter and awwwing the quote that I posted was by far my favorite. It's when the the mother is talking to her daughter about what the difference is between the love she has for her ex-husband and the love that she has found! For all you married ladies, I hope that this is the love that you have found and for all the single ladies, this is the love that you hold out for. Never settle and know that there is someone out there that will give you this kind of love!!!

Holy Cow I hit the ball :)

Laughter, encouragement and cheer is what last night was all about. We took the field as a bunch of friends getting together for the first time to play a game of softball. We took on a team who has obviously played before but we held our own. They got a strong lead but we snuck up on them quickly. The final score was 17-14 with us taking a loss, but it still was a great time, learned alot, even got to hit the ball a few times :) Jonathan did great at bat, making sure that it landed between the short stop and the outfielders, always taking a base or two. We has an absolutely great time and even got in a little workout, so stay tuned for more adventures as our next game is in two weeks :)

Tiddens vs Softball

Since Jonathan and I started dating almost three years ago I always said I wanted to be one of those active married couples. Well Jonathan has honored my requested and signed us up on a team with some friends of ours, with our first game starting on Friday. Now Jonathan has played softball with the Coast Guard and thoroughly enjoys it, but my memories of softball are a little different. I remember being in a game when I was a little girl and the coach telling me to pay attention and stop picking flowers and doing headstands. I have only played one game since and that was over a year ago, so my skills are somewhat lacking. So my overjoyed dear husband has gone out and gotten me a new glove, a new softball and new shorts. We have even gone out and tossed around the ball a bit. I am getting excited, more about playing the sport and less about the competition part but excited none the less, so expect a blog about the Tidden's first game and lets hope for no black eyes :)

Whirlwind Astros Game

A couple months ago, one of Jonathan's friends mentioned that him and his wife go to an Astros game every year but this past year have not been able to make it, with jobs, new house etc etc. Joanthan, the ever generous one, called up his dad and asked him if he could pick up some tickets for us to go to the game. Due to work schedules, we left at 8am on Saturday, drove straight through to Houston, went straight to Micah's football game, came home and changed, went to the baseball game. The game was awesome, we had a great time, the astros played great, the company was wonderful, my nachos were amazing, all in all a fabulous time. We came home pretty late, did a little hot tubbing and then crashed out. Slept in a little had some family time, followed by an amazing lunch and then we were off again. It was a whirlwind trip but fun none the less, next time we will stay longer :)